WHAT IS A VALUE, AND WHY SHOULD I CARE?
Values are the guidelines by which we live our lives. Our decisions are made based on our values. Our values work on a system of hierarchy that are unique to each individual. The higher the priority of a value, the greater the power it has in our lives. Every decision and action we take is based on this inner checklist or hierarchy of values, whether we are conscious of them or not.
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If our values are not conscious to us, we are literally being led through our lives by the unconscious. This creates a feeling of being off course and possibly unfulfilled, with no purpose and poor communication and boundaries. We are like a ship lost at sea.
When we are conscious of our values, it becomes possible for us to make decisions that are appropriate for our individual needs and desires. Values placed in the order of their importance will also support all other values that come behind them. When we truly honor this sacred order of our guidance system, our relationships will match our values as a result. When we make choices based on our values we honor ourselves.
If we do not know the values that are important to us, we may end up with a partner that has different goals, interests, direction, belief systems and principles. A relationship based on this lack of self awareness can lead to violence, divorce, hostility, family turbulence, suicide and dis-ease.
Knowing the values of ourselves and others helps form healthier, equal and committed relationships. These relationships can be built on similar values which lead to fulfilling connection.
Divine Connections offers consultations to create divine connections in your life,
through discovering what your personal values are.
through discovering what your personal values are.